Negative and positive consequences of divorce

On Behalf of | Oct 14, 2023 | Divorce |

Psychology Today reports that a third to 80% of people regret getting a divorce. According to World Population Review, the Colorado divorce rate was 3% in 2021.

Some divorced people realize that ending a marriage often has pros and cons. If you’re thinking of getting a divorce, you might want to carefully consider the possible benefits and pitfalls of your choice.

Freedom vs. loneliness

You certainly can gain freedom and independence by getting a divorce. You won’t have to answer to your spouse and can live your life as you see fit. Getting a divorce can give you control over everything in your life, including the decisions you make and your environment.

The potential downside is that you might feel lonely or lack direction. If you’re coming out of a long-term marriage, you’re probably more accustomed to your spouse than you realize. Also, you might lose family friends who decide to remain close with your spouse.

Personal growth vs. personal pain

Divorce can give you a new lease on life. It’s potentially the perfect time to explore your wants and needs. If you’re looking for an opportunity for personal growth, divorce can possibly provide that.

However, divorce can sometimes hurt your mental health. The American Psychological Association reports that divorce can cause depression, loneliness and isolation. However, you can overcome the negatives by focusing on creating a better life for yourself.

Better financial situation vs. worse financial situation

Divorce can possibly lead to increased financial stability. For example, perhaps your spouse made terrible financial decisions. Getting a divorce and making your own financial decisions may help.

However, divorce can also cause financial problems. You might find yourself arguing about alimony or child support. You might also have to change your lifestyle because you no longer belong to a two-income household. Your entire life could change because your income is now less than when you were married.

If you feel your marriage is worth saving, then perhaps you’ll want to get professional help. But if divorce is the best option, you might consider getting help to deal with the aftermath.