Common Divorce Mistakes To Avoid

On Behalf of | Jan 7, 2021 | Divorce |

Going through a divorce can be one of the most difficult life events for many people in Colorado. During this time, it’s easy to let emotions get the best of you and make big mistakes. By stepping back, taking a breath, and thinking about the big picture, you can hopefully avoid some of these common divorce mistakes.

Mistake no. 1: Discussing the divorce on social media

Sharing relationship statuses on social media has become common practice, but when it comes to divorce, you may not want to share. The few seconds that it takes you to type out your new relationship status could lead to weeks, or months, of drama. Some people, including your soon-to-be ex-spouse, could become very upset about your public post. Your ex may even use your post against you in court.

Mistake no. 2: Viewing divorce as a win-lose game

Another common mistake that divorcing spouses make is viewing their divorce as a game that can be won or lost. If you view your divorce this way, you may try to get all of the assets and full custody because you think that means you’ve won.

However, the way that you can really win in the divorce process is by amicably resolving issues with your ex-spouse outside of court. When a judge doesn’t have to get involved and your divorce records don’t have to be made public, that’s when everybody wins.

Mistake no. 3: Getting too hung up on a 50-50 parenting schedule

This may be difficult to accept for some divorcing parents, but a 50-50 parenting schedule doesn’t always work for everyone. Depending on work schedules and a variety of other issues, fighting for a 50-50 split may not be reasonable. A mistake that many divorcing parents make is getting too hung up on equal parenting time instead of thinking practically about what schedule would actually work.

Ask for help with your divorce

Divorce can be a complicated and overwhelming process, so it is never a mistake to ask for a little help from a professional. An attorney may be able to take some of the burden off your shoulders so that you can focus on the next chapter of your life.